Food for thought

I saw this on another blog.  It was about people pleasing, which I've mentioned on here before.

I need to mull it over a bit, but I think there's a lot of truth here:

"It's part of my DNA to love others and not disappoint them. But I have to realize real love is honest. Real love cares enough about other people to say no when saying yes would build up a barrier in the relationship. Real love pursues authenticity rather than chasing acceptance."

apparently by Lysa TurKeurst